39. HOTTER SEX ON HOLIDAY
WHY IS SEX ALWAYS SO HOT WHEN YOU’RE ON HOLIDAY?
On this hilarious episode, Sara chats with sex-positive friends Kat and Will, about some fun and exciting holiday sex encounters.
Holiday sex brings out a sense of adventure in all of us, it allows us to break from routine and explore something new in a completely different setting. We tend to be less inhibited and experience more anticipation.
While the sex may be hotter, we also talk about some of the potential drawbacks of holiday sex and what to do to avoid them.
We also share tips around how to prepare for a sexy holiday, and what we can do to bring that holiday magic to our sex lives even when we’re not traveling.
This episode will have you laughing, reminiscing, and planning your next sexy getaway!
More Juicy Bits on the Show
7:16 - 10:10 - Why is holiday sex so hot?
10:10 - 19:44 - Personal hottest sexual encounters
22:37 - 25:38 – Drawbacks of sex on holiday
25:40 - 27:30 - Prepping for a sexy holiday
28:40 - 29:50 - Taking your sex toys through customs
34:08 - 40:10 - Managing holiday sex as a couple
42:25 - 44:57 - How to put yourself in sexy situations on holidays
48:15-51:30 - Recreating that sexy travel magic at home
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Tips for Hotter Holiday Sex
Be Prepared. Get on a dating app or a social network beforehand to check out the scene. And pack sexy outfits, toys and condoms or do some grooming. The readier you are, the more relaxed you’ll be when the opportunity arises.
Safety first. Be aware of your surroundings, leave details of your whereabouts with your friends and always put your safety first before wandering off with someone new solo.
Find opportunities to connect. If traveling with a partner, set up and align your verbal expectations for your holiday. Seek out opportunities to connect with your partner (or new people if traveling solo) on holiday but also make space for each other, if necessary.
Experiment. Holidays are the perfect time to try new things and get out of your comfort zone. Make the most of the different environments and entertainment available in the destination you’re visiting.
Recreate the holiday magic at home. Plan a staycation at a beautiful location like a hotel or even camping at a remote beach. Switch off your devices, don’t make any other plans and prioritise spending quality time together.
Words of Wisdom
“I think a lot of people lose their inhibitions, there’s always that ‘what happens in Vegas stays in Vegas’ kind of idea. You can be more of yourself on holiday, you can do things that you’ve never done because the judgement is not there, you’re not around people that you might know.”
“The beds are bigger, the pool, it’s easier to invite friends over when you’re like ‘hey, we’re at this 5-star hotel, you want to come hang out’. That’s actually the reason we do staycations, it adds to another opportunity.”
“One of the things I used to do when I travelled when I was much younger was to either do courses or tours with strangers. This cuts the ice with people that want to do the same thing as you and creates a really interesting dynamic.”
“I always try to see what kind of play parties and play clubs and things like that are out there. When I lived in Madrid, before I moved over there, I was like ‘what’s over there, what can I actually get into, so you’ve got to do some research to see where are my type of people and where can I find them. It’s just a different kind of research”.
“I think that’s also part of the attraction. Every city has their own type of scene and they’re good at doing a certain type of sex entertainment. And I think that’s also the allure of traveling for sex and traveling to discover new fetishes, or traditions”.
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6 Ways to Amp Up Your Vacation Sex – Tips for elevating your holiday sex while leaving the usual stressors at home.
Holiday Sex: Recreate the passion and romance in your own home - Expert tips on recreating the passion of holiday sex when you can’t travel.
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